After 28 Years, What Would You Do--Stay or Go?

By Roy Klein with comments from Dr. Block Empathy – the ability to feel what your partner feels and then act accordingly – may be the most important characteristic a person can bring to a marriage or other relationship. And when it comes to empathy, there are two kinds of people – those who have it (“Us”) and those who don’t (“Them”). The problem is that we all think we’re Us; none of us thinks we’re Them. That’s because Them have a blind spot. Them see themselves as victims and martyrs. Them preach that everyone should take responsibility for their actions and be accountable for their behavior while Them blame everyone else for Them’s problems. Them actually think that Them are Us and Us are Them. How dare Them! So, how do Us tell the differe View the rest of this article